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Divorce Rate in Valle d’Aosta

In Valle d’Aosta, matrimioni ended with the separation lasted, on average, fourteen years as the rest of the peninsula, “the couple split for reasons that often involved outside – looks André Lanièce – economic hardship, the same financial crisis or the fatigue of supporting a mortgage when the work is likely to be less sudden. But if the couple is no longer such, parents should not stop being parents by Law 54 of 2006 has reached a new conquest with shared custody and the concept of “bi-parenting” in the speakers of conference have explained the conditions and real applications. The family as a human heart can not be erased: the relationship of parents and children is also suffering with a situation that leads to living in different houses, sometimes distant cities. Children, however, need reference points: hardly a person who has suffered trauma, unintentional, whose parents split up, can not bring him a scar and a distrust of the couple,

Child as Divorce Victims

Among the inscriptions on the role of separation, in 2007, the average age data are exactly the same as national numbers: for men, the age at which they were married 29 years and is one in which there is separate is 44 years. A difference for women who are married in the Valley, on average, aged 26, against the national average of 25, split in 41 years, like other Italian. Some peculiarities with the national data also occurs in the type of fights: 90 percent of separations were caused by intolerable character, against 81 percent of the national average. In the remaining ten percent, 6.7 percent is attributable to the wife, while only 3.3 to their husbands, even though 73 percent of applications for separation was submitted by women, while only 23 percent from husbands.
As for children, 84 percent of cases of separation custody was shared, but in 15.6 cases was selected for sole custody to mothers and in the remaining 0.4 percent in third ” the problem is that parents are two, this should put it in his head – said Ubaldo Valentini – Equal opportunities often do not help because they defend the mother only, or the “pink phones” or “helplines” defending children. Today is written in the decrees “shared custody” or “joint” with placement mainly with their mothers and then, in reality, the “shifts” are as before. I want to say that in our society there are more women than men, then we are “separated parents” and not “separated fathers.” This is the modus operandi of judges, lawyers who do not ask for the “shared” real, because in reality it could be small…