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Parents Responsibility for Their Separation
towards the formation of a new family. If we fail to defend our families and our children, we risk creating a society where the majority is a “separated child”. ”
The conference concluded a week of special meetings for both parents, both professionals, beginning with a candlelight 
vigil Wednesday, April 7, entitled “A Light for Life” to raise awareness on issues of emergency separation, but it has collected only seven participants, “we wanted to make this series of reflections – adds Valentini – Forty years have passed since the birth of a divorce. We also examined other aspects, such as sexuality, to what effect the separation as a prerequisite for the reconstruction of the family or the human and economic costs of these separations. We mainly wanted to talk about the protection of children, you can not see the separation as an act of selfishness and civil society must intervene because the children of separated parents now could be the future directors of the company. If they have a negative view of life and family, what kind of society will administer, what will their proposals, ?
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Divorce Rate in Valle d’Aosta
In Valle d’Aosta, matrimioni ended with the separation lasted, on average, fourteen years as the rest of the peninsula, “the
couple split for reasons that often involved outside – looks André Lanièce – economic hardship, the same financial crisis or the fatigue of supporting a mortgage when the work is likely to be less sudden. But if the couple is no longer such, parents should not stop being parents by Law 54 of 2006 has reached a new conquest with shared custody and the concept of “bi-parenting” in the speakers of conference have explained the conditions and real applications. The family as a human heart can not be erased: the relationship of parents and children is also suffering with a situation that leads to living in different houses, sometimes distant cities. Children, however, need reference points: hardly a person who has suffered trauma, unintentional, whose parents split up, can not bring him a scar and a distrust of the couple,
Child as Divorce Victims
Among the inscriptions on the role of separation, in 2007, the average age data are exactly the same as national numbers: for men, the age at which they were married 29 years and is one in which there is separate is 44 years. A difference for women who are married in the Valley, on average, aged 26, against the national average of 25, split in 41 years, like other Italian. Some peculiarities with the national data also occurs in the type of fights: 90 percent of separations were caused by intolerable character, against 81 percent of the national average. In the remaining ten percent, 6.7 percent is attributable to the wife, while only 3.3 to their husbands, even though 73 percent of applications for separation was submitted by women, while only 23 percent from husbands.
As for children, 84 percent of cases of separation custody was shared, but in 15.6 cases was selected for sole custody to mothers and in the remaining 0.4 percent in third ” the problem is that parents are two, this should put it in his head – said Ubaldo Valentini – Equal opportunities often do not help because they defend the mother only, or the “pink phones” or “helplines” defending children. Today is written in the decrees “shared custody” or “joint” with placement mainly with their mothers and then, in reality, the “shifts” are as before. I want to say that in our society there are more women than men, then we are “separated parents” and not “separated fathers.” This is the modus operandi of judges, lawyers who do not ask for the “shared” real, because in reality it could be small…
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Divorce and Social Policies
the separation rate was of 9.2 while the divorce rate is at 6.3, the values, a thousand married couples, the highest in Italy, compared with an average value, in northern Italy, with 6 , 1 and 4.3. And ‘what has emerged during the conference 
“What protection of children in separations?”, Saturday, April 10 at Palazzo regional, organized by the Presidency of the Council Valley, involving, among others, Vice President of the Council Valley, André Lanièce, of the Regional health, health and social policies, Albert Lanièce, the national president of the “separated parents to protect children,” Ubaldo Valentini, president of the Institute of studies on fatherhood, and the President of Mauritius Quilici Court of Ivrea, Carlomaria Garbellotto, former President of the Court of Aosta.
Moment Before Divorce
I seem to live in a world where tears are no longer permitted. Everything hurts and forces to dig heavily into the self is considered a burden to be rid as soon as possible. A way that makes life easier, certainly, but does not help to improve.
He had started out with the recycling of wedding gifts, sadly cynical. Today we arrived at the first exhibition of Italian divorce, “Former chief point and” an event – say the organizers – who wants to help those who find themselves suddenly without family. And then, via discussions, meetings, dating agencies and investigative psychologists anti talking services for ladies, stylists and architects to think of a new home. Personally it all seems rather ridiculous. And even if the break was seen as a liberation, it can also avoid trumpet from the rooftops, hanging out at the fair divorce, subscribing to speed date or improvised dance lessons. Sorry if I seem bigoted, but also a little break ‘class would not go amiss.
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Divorce as Opportunity Business
The exhibition arrives in Italy of a divorce at a particular moment, in a context that sees the triumph of the liquid,
thus defined by the sociologist Bauman. The fragility of emotional ties has led to a reinterpretation of the meaning of marriage, no longer seems to be forever.
The philosophy from which the idea of divorce fair starts from this premise: the separation is not an end but a new beginning. What is needed is not crying over memories of a love story ended, but be strong and go forward with the aim of making a new life, forgetting the past. What better opportunity for business, but to monetize on this delicate time of life?
The masters of marketing have not made the opportunity pass and put up a large area available for ex-husbands, ex-wives and curious. Wellthiness describes some services within the show.
Divorce Planer in Milan
At the fair the divorce, the divorce planner Milena Stojovic, has proposed a 360 ° service for those about to face the 
difficult period, the legal thinking to psychological support. His company, Hello, Love had 35 customers last year, of whom seven have since decided to stay together.
Once you get the fateful day Stojkovic helps singles looking for a new home, find a babysitter, and all other aspects of daily life that may seem insurmountable to those who are in a state of emotional confusion and may even make up to panic.
The fairgrounds, with all the stands, however, there are some solutions to offer to restart after suffering a divorce from a trip to the spa-Slovenia to redecorate the appartamaneto or take part in the marathon for the third single to be held on 6 June just in Milan.
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Divorce Factor
The change in family law has been accompanied by an increase in the rate of divorce. Why? Obviously there is a unique
and comprehensive response, but there are several factors that somehow changed the relationship between man and woman. Social changes have occupied a prominent role in the transformation of the meaning of divorce: the spread of greater economic prosperity and cultural empowerment of the fairer sex, for example, have one hand made it easier to separate in practice and ‘another, have helped to combat stereotypes about divorce itself.
Another factor to be reckoned with is the growing tendency to consider the marriage on the basis of personal satisfaction that is able to offer. In an era when even the feelings in light of contingency, the increased divorce rate should not necessarily be viewed as a crisis of marriage, but rather as an increasing willingness to make a satisfactory relationship.
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Love Liquid
Italy also came the hall of the divorce fair, to make available to former husbands and former wives of a survival kit post-separation. Yet another marketing strategy or event useful to those concerned?
For many centuries in the West, marriage was considered indissoluble union “until death do us part.” Over time things have changed, the practice of divorce has gained greater legal and social burden, undermining the principle of eternal love, making it somewhat reversible.
In the beginning the divorce was based on so-called adversarial system: a spouse accused the other of any sin to get separation. Today, because marriage can be dissolved, no longer needed accuse, just much less, is enough to say that cohabitation has become intolerable, without dwelling on it. Divorce is not, therefore, a punishment for those who have violated the rules marriage, but a remedy to a situation that has been created.
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Practice of Divorce
The fact is that in recent 50anni, the practice of divorce has taken a very different symbolic value, an exception to the custom, by the end of a love for business.
Yeah, sounds like a jarring, but its business is spoken, and in May, also in Italy, took place in the Hall of divorce fair, to make available to former husbands and former wives of a survival kit after separation. Bittersweet experience, an alter ego kitsch Expo spouses, a mirror of a reality that is increasingly Italians.
Science & Health introduces “point and Former Head” – this is the name of the fair – starting from the last Istat data on divorce